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Case of female talent 30 years old, living in Hangzhou.
Six months of marriage, her husband became a vegetable. That year,tn nike, a woman 27 years old.
She took care of him for three years. Most recently, she successfully sued, you want to change custody. "I'm 30 years old now, and I want to get married, have children. Divorced,air jordan pour femme, I can take care of him until he died." She cried.
But the other parent's attitude as cold as ice: we are older, can not take care of, do not agree.
A few days ago, the city court sentenced the case. Woman lost.
Beloved husband into a vegetative state
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She is 3 years care
Women are the Northeast,http://www.expo-2015milan.com/activity/p/606337/, the man is a native of Hangzhou, the only son. They married four years ago to rent. Lovers.
Six months later, the calm life was a sudden turn of events ruined. A man in a traffic accident on his way home from work, became a vegetable.
Although her husband lying there quietly, but she loved him. Then apply to the Court finds that her husband is no capacity for civil conduct, when by her guardian, "his parents did not want to pipe,air jordan pas cher femme, pipe good as I come."
Since then, a woman's world, only men in this hospital bed. Husband received a sum of compensation, as well as 5000 yuan monthly wage subsidies.
But these have to save the flower,http://www.aurosiksha.org/login/index.php?item/create_form/1, husband to spend a month in the hospital two or three million.
To pay the rent but also eating, the woman insisted during the day, night, rushed to the hospital to accompany the bed. Afraid of her hard work, the woman's mother came home from Hangzhou, help take care of.
Life was very trivial. Daily meals,air max requin, well beaten to burn liquid, and then sent to the man's stomach.
Sometimes men burst epilepsy, a woman and her mother could not sleep a wink all night.
This day, a full three years is over.
Women are more thin, haggard, if also less.
Men parents turned down "burden"
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Love and affection between a woman tangled
Family looked distressed, advised her: so young, they do not have children, so if you have to tie him down with, what you have in the future?
Initially, the woman is very persistent, do not want to become a vegetable lover to give up. She always thought: perhaps through their meticulous care, he could wake up it?
Slowly, she does not go a little support.
She did not think the man's parents always cold. Son after the accident, rarely go to the hospital, or even indifferent. Control in recent years their mother's silence to pay, women are often in tears.
One side is once beloved husband, while her mother worked hard for themselves. This heavy love, let a woman breathless.
She finally filed for divorce court. At that time the court did not accept the grounds that a woman is a man's guardian, then the plaintiff and the defendant is the same person, so I can not sue.
Thus, only the woman turned to mention the change of guardianship case.
Trial, the woman always cried, even change the custody, she was willing to take care of a man.
Man's parents did not appear in court. But the attitude of the "burden" of clear: we have the age of seventy,chaussure tn pas cher, it needs to take care of young children,louboutin pas cher, and how can I afford to take care of vegetative burden.
Thus, mediation is already disintegrated.
Court ultimately determined that the woman's petition dismissed.
Her husband is still the vegetative guardian.
She wanted a new life
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But he still does not fit
Yesterday, I removed links on the woman. Her voice was calm, several times hesitantly.
The woman said her husband lying in bed, eyes closed every night to sleep, woke up this morning eyes, like alive.
"Just eyeball will not transfer direction, foolishly, I do not know if he could feel me around and I could get married after having children, but I am still fit him."
But growing old mother, leaving her worried: over 60-year-old left his wife and moved to Hangzhou to help, a help that is 3 years.
The day, now seems to be no end in sight.
"If his parents do not always agree, I took him to divorce." Some women pull off, she has filed for divorce to the court again.
Say anything, a woman was silent, "I do not say, I do not want to put pressure on the two families,http://swinglife.co.uk/forum/YaBB.pl?num=1413809965/0, so they thought I was to take to get sympathy, to divorce the purpose."
Legal and reasonable hard collision
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Female judges dilemma
This case, the female judge some dilemma. Between legal and reasonable in a difficult collision.
Order by law, no capacity for civil conduct adult guardian is :( a) spouse (two) parents (three) adult children.
In this particular case, the couple has no children,air jordan 4 blanche, old and sick parents,jordans femme pas cher, and made it clear: advanced age, can not always act as guardian, the applicant does not agree to change custody.
In this case, if you change the guardian for the parents, who in the end vegetative future husband custody? Put him out, it will become a social problem.
And think of the Marriage Law, the couple is living together partner, the rights and obligations of mutual dependency, both sides should help each other in economic life, mutual support.
Finally, the court rejected the woman's request to change custody. The reasons are: 1, the applicant is well fulfilled the duties of a guardian, guardianship capacity, and no guardian unfavorable to favorable ward; 2, the respondent old and sick parents, the court needs to take into account is the applicant's parents prior and after the death of the applicant is, the respondent's custody.
"In order not to be the applicant to the society, to make a comprehensive judgment."
The judge said, for a woman filed for divorce again, the Court has considered filing.
"This time, we will consider the man's parents as an agent, so it will not cause the original defendant, the situation is the same person. Cases can be properly prosecuted."
Her young age
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Is it only keep it that way
Zhejiang hand Lawyer Pan Yongming hearing the story, say so, very special.
From the Civil Law, the spouse is the first guardian. Woman filed for divorce, is contrary to the identity of the first guardian. But in divorce proceedings, can prevail marriage law, act as an agent by the man's parents. The so-called freedom to marry, divorce is also freedom. Determine the marital relationship continues to exist,air max one pas cher, the key to whether the couple both have feelings. If the woman insisted repeatedly filed for divorce, so that women can have no feelings for the man. Legally can support a woman divorce.
The woman once divorced, then she would no longer be the guardian and, thus,jordans pas cher, does not care about the rights and obligations of a vegetative state.
In the actual trial,http://www.moriichi-net.co.jp,nike air jordan pas cher homme, the judge may take into consideration the other party is in a vegetative state, and the advanced age of parents, in a vulnerable situation.
But the woman suffered the same compassionate: Only 30 years old, and no children. Can re-pursue a new life. As vegetative eventually become social problems, it was not her marriage could shirk.
This is indeed the situation with reasonable impact.
Hangzhou Academy of Social Sciences researcher at the Institute of Sociology Fu Liqun opinion, women bear the responsibility to take care of, to be on a voluntary basis. If she does not want, filed for divorce,http://bbs.cnlxjkw.com/thread-5119370-1-1.html, is understandable. Marriage between husband and wife is no longer real, after all. After the divorce, the woman is willing to continue to care for the man, it is people moving, but after three to five years, if a new home could not continue,http://www.urbandead.com/signup.cgi, and that is understandable, after all, she has no legal obligation to take care of.
At this time, the man's parents,http://tukipie.net/audiobook/index.cgi, though advanced in age, but also to assume the obligations of guardianship. The couple's joint property can bias the man, including a car accident compensation and 5000 yuan monthly salary, including benefits.
In fact, the best way is mediation,http://www.sugowaza.jp/reports/get/1/9150, the parents of a woman and a man can sit down, mutual understanding, mutual their promise of a future.
(Original title: Is 30 years old, she can accompany her husband to finish this vegetative life)